This past weekend was my last weekend as a resident of Raleigh, NC. I am not exaggerating when I say that it was a phenomenal one. Between the skate sessions, the partying, and the intimate conversations, I genuinely felt an appreciation for each moment. It helps that I got to see some of the people I really wanted to see before leaving, but almost every interaction was real and valuable. The typical “touching base” without substance was not prevalent. To all of you that I saw and enjoyed time with, Thank You.
Reflecting on this phenomenal weekend, I realize that there has been a unique and meaningful community cultivated here among my friends in Raleigh. So many exchanges of words & ideas, hugs & kisses, favors & regrets, and victories & defeats have happened to form this web of relationships. Community is special and something we all (at some point) take for granted. Furthermore, there are special and different communities in so many places. I’m grateful for the communities that I’m a part of but also aware enough to recognize that there are so many others in different places, for different purposes, and with different qualities that also offer something special.
Reflecting on this phenomenal weekend, I realize that there has been a unique and meaningful community cultivated here among my friends in Raleigh. So many exchanges of words & ideas, hugs & kisses, favors & regrets, and victories & defeats have happened to form this web of relationships. Community is special and something we all (at some point) take for granted. Furthermore, there are special and different communities in so many places. I’m grateful for the communities that I’m a part of but also aware enough to recognize that there are so many others in different places, for different purposes, and with different qualities that also offer something special.
Skating with friends in Lima, Peru. 2011
School has created such an amazing community for me, in particular. Skateboarding also has and has done so for so many that might otherwise not have one. The binding thread varies, but there always is one. Some people go to church. Some people are in a book club. Some people are bowlers. Some people belong to a rock-climbing gym. Some people create and appreciate art.
You can pursue whichever path you want, but ultimately your community is your local one.
Very soon, I will witness and experience (even more) local communities all across the continental US. I’m grateful for the opportunity to sample the flavors of community in other areas and regions of our country. But dammit, will I miss the homies in North Carolina.
Embrace your community. Don’t expect it.
- 7Ply Epic
You can pursue whichever path you want, but ultimately your community is your local one.
Very soon, I will witness and experience (even more) local communities all across the continental US. I’m grateful for the opportunity to sample the flavors of community in other areas and regions of our country. But dammit, will I miss the homies in North Carolina.
Embrace your community. Don’t expect it.
- 7Ply Epic
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